Article: Love and Let Love | ThinkUp

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Author: Alia Al Hazami?
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Hatred comes so easily. It eats you up and spits you out leaving you in a resenting state, loathing everything and everyone for no reason whatsoever. Hate is a strong word and I?m absolutely abashed to admit that I use it with complete freedom, not giving the harm and emotional hurt it gives to others a second thought. I?m working on myself. Self improvement is what I seek.
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To me, sadness is not the opposite of happiness; it?s hatred. Hatred consumes you creating sadness. It stops you from living life to the fullest and it definitely builds obstacles that come in the way of your success.
Life is all about happiness; it?s what drives success. In order to have a life full of joy and achievements, love has to be present beforehand. It gives you the sensation of accomplishment and happiness. Hatred pushes people away. What?s the use of achieving when there is no one to share your happiness with? When you reach the point of success and realize that there?s no one to celebrate it with you, it instantly turns your joy into misery.
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I know that all that?s said at the current time is ?Live for now? or ?Live like there?s no tomorrow? and I?m completely into it, but at certain situations, the future is all you need to think about. Obviously, everyone wants to enjoy life but that isn?t an excuse to be reckless. You need to make something out of yourself. You need to plan for a bright career and a future worth living for. Live like there?s no tomorrow but seek your future?s welfare as well.
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Everlasting joy can be accomplished in one way, expressing love. I made a resolution last year to radiate love but sadly, I failed. I by no means tried properly. I used to throw the word ?hate? like it meant nothing. It was completely wrong of me. I discovered that the only way I can truly spread love and happiness is by allowing others in. I never really allowed people into my life. All my friendships started with resentment and that was a huge mistake that I lived with. I was misguided. As a writer I want to help people become the best person they could be. I want to help others in similar issues by taking advantage of my drama and help them face theirs in a better way. Love and let love is my advice.
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Convincing yourself that you?re up for the challenge of searching for happiness itself will turn you into a loving person. I go through so many phases that I couldn?t keep up with them anymore and realization struck me that I?m ruining myself. Though I?m doing it unwillingly, it?s still considered self-demolition. I realized that in a way I was actually spreading an aura of detestation. I was someone you definitely wouldn?t want to be around.
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I decided to grow as a person. I learnt something from all my phases and a dear person; to rise above people and be the better individual. Let them throw hatred; let them bully. Their words are their weapons; their aim is to ruin anyone who craves success so why bother with their selfishness? Words do hurt you emotionally but rise above all the pain and exude love.
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Love is a universal language spoken only by those who possess a pure heart. Humans go through various ordeals, pain and sorrows but remembering that their pain will one day benefit their success must solicit to determination. Have faith that after all the troubles you went through, someway someday you will get rewarded. As long as you hunt improvement and success, the only obstacle that comes in the way of your success is your own self.
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Letting people get to you won?t benefit you, so why give in? Humans are complex organisms. They let emotions control them. I understand that that happens involuntarily, but at times we have to get a grip of ourselves and take control of what we feel. No matter what happens, replace your sadness with happiness, your resentment with love. Only then, will you understand the true value of the wonderful life we?re given.
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